Oflate I have been thinking if being devout and career oriented self have any difference.
I feel that while the world is changing and so is husband's viewpoint, there is still a lot that has to change, husband's supporting their spouse in their career.
Not just in their current City but if the wife is able to find a caterer enriching opportunity elsewhere, why don't they tag along just the way we go with them no question asked?
A small poll to my readers, its anonymous so please be genuine 😊
If you are a husband, how willing are you to tag along or follow your wife in her career move?
0%yes i would
0%only if i get a better opportunity there
0%why should i move?
Would I make such a move? Well I am from a traditional South Indian family, have many career aspirations, I love to take challenges at work, conquer them and grow.
I know work keeps me motivated, it's like an addiction, something more intense than multiple orgasm a woman can ever experience.
But what really matters or boils down is how compatible is your relationship, how much of trust have you built in there as foundation to the rest of your life together.
I am devout to my husband and at the same time focus on enhancing my career, growing up the chain with my strong performance.
As I pen this post, I am driven by an urge to explore the unseen opportunities and Excel in them with the support of my better half and hope he realises it and travels the journey with me.
Some of my thoughts for a meaningful approach between the couple, I would use these and maybe over time share if at all I was successful ☺️:
It’s important to have an open and honest conversation with your husband about your desire to find an overseas job and relocate
You can try to think holistically about the potential move and consider your overall happiness and satisfaction
Think about the lifestyle that the new location affords or lacks and how it will impact both of you and your family
It’s also important to talk through the move with your husband and consider what it means for his career. Will it be a setback (which you do not want) or opportunities would be available?
In summary, be open, understanding, supportive and with no ulterior motives in your dis
Cheers, AndhraDiva
♥️ Until my next post...
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